Real amateur swinger couples are introduced to a large swinger club in Germany. You will be shown the club and given a briefing. This is very easy, because you can swing anywhere and just not fuck in the water. The mature and young couples go to the playground and host a big group sex party. Everyone fucks everyone, everyone is wearing nice underwear and sharing their wives. Simple housewives and young women also take part in the amateur orgy.
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As much sex as possible, with many different people. So some people sacrifice their mental health for this and think it's okay to unnecessarily complicate their lives. It would be (as a man) healthier (psychologically) to be faithful to only one woman and to marry and only then to live out one's sexuality. A lot of problems would go away (jealousy, to name just one). It is also impatient and such people used to be called “newbies” who don’t want to wait long to have sex. It is precisely this postponement of rewards in combination with patience in life that is a decisive criterion for success, as many studies have proven. But one “learns” this precisely by waiting until marriage to have sex, for example. Studies have also shown that premarital abstinence (virginity until marriage) is rewarded with a happier, healthier marriage. So here's a warning from me to anyone who is searching for the truth and wondering if it's healthy to practice polyamory: Don't believe the lies of those who lie to themselves just to satisfy their lust, they think it's fun Swinging and having a lot of sex outside of marriage. Rather believe that a faithful and good marriage is the healthiest and most satisfying way to live out your sexuality (yes, only with one person). Because that's the truth and I can also justify it: Beautiful sex needs a few components and they are a good deep connection, love, trust (which comes from security and consistency), security (which comes from loyalty = because exclusivity), calm (which also comes through security and normality). The factors just mentioned influence sex much more positively than any change in the world (through changing partners) could ever achieve. Love is more than just lust, by the way. Lust can also exist completely without love. But only in combination with true romantic sexual love (and that includes exclusivity and fidelity) can lust really be lived out satisfactorily in the long term. By the way, it's also like eating (fast food vs. healthy eating) a question of sustainability among others. one night stands etc. are simply never good in the long term. That's out of the question. Sex is a way of making "bonding" between two people that is stronger than any other way of deepening a relationship, whoever thinks it's only for one night and then goodbye without emotional harm to both is primarily cheating himself. : ) #truthbomb By the way, contrary to what some might think, it's good to speak your mind and it's even better to tell the truth when you know it. And yes there is a universal truth, quick example: The sun radiates heat onto the earth. That's right, isn't it? So it's the truth that applies to everyone. There is something like that, contrary to the opinion of some who claim that there are only subjective truths and that everyone has their own truth. That there are only subjective truths is a lie to justify one's lies.